Desire for fisting, felching, rimming, “farming’ , scat , anal penetration among MSM as immutable as skin colour ?

Sexual orientation refers  to attraction, identity  and  behaviour.

 Leaders  such as  President  Obama, Prime  Minister  David  Cameron , UN Secretary General Ban Ki Moon ,  Lord  Justice  Munby,  Mr  Justice Beatson,  Lord  Neuberger,Archbishop Desmond Tutu  and  others  and  institutions such as the UN, UNAIDS, Inter American Commission on Human Rights (IACHR) , WHO, the  European Court of  Human Rights  and  others   hold  the view  that  sexual  orientation is properly  understood as  a minority  status  whose  “rights” to their  private  behaviour must not  only be tolerated  and not criticized  but   must  be  protected  even at the expense  of  conscience.  

Understood  within  the  civil  rights  context  expounded  by  LGBT  activists  and  their  supporters  homosexual  orientation (same-sex  attraction, identity  and behaviour) are  as  immutable  as  one’s  skin  colour.  Those  who do  not agree  with  this   civil  rights  construct  are  labeled  homophobic….. mentally  ill.

Within  the   paradigm  it  is  a given  that   behaviours  such  as   fisting, felching, rimming, farming, scat, anal penetration, chariot  racing  etc  among  Men who  have  Sex  with Men (MSM)  are  as  immutable  as  the colour  of  one’s skin

 

http://www.hardcell.org.uk/en/playroom/scat/

SCAT

Scat / Things to know

Also known in personal ads and internet profiles as:

  • brown
  • dirty (as in ‘into dirty’)
  • scatology.

Hanky code

Brown worn:

  • on the left (wants to dump on you)
  • on the right (wants to be dumped on).

What is scat?

Scat involves playing with shit, smearing it on your or his body, and sometimes eating it. It can also mean just getting off on seeing another guy dump his load.

‘Farming’ is taking shit from public toilets to play with.

 

http://www.hardcell.org.uk/en/playroom/felching/

FELCHING

Felching / Things to know

What is felching?

Felching is sucking (usually your own) cum out of someone’s arse, possibly with a straw. It may then include passing the spunk from mouth to mouth.

What’s the attraction?

Many of us are drawn towards tasting or swallowing cum (our own or others). It can mean taking into the body something seen as valued and potent.

Felching can also signify the end of the sex act. This meaning is even stronger if the cum’s been inside the other man as it’s a strong sign of two men joining together in a very intimate, ‘no limits’ way.

A strong, ‘piggy’ erotic charge comes from breaking the taboos around cleanliness and health that come with taking into your mouth something that’s been up another man’s arse.

http://www.hardcell.org.uk/en/playroom/fisting/

FISTING

Fisting / Things to know / What can go wrong?

Also known in personal ads and internet profiles as:

  • fistfucking
  • ff
  • handballing
  • red.

Hanky code

Red, worn:

  • on the left (wants to fist)
  • on the right (wants to be fisted)
  • round the neck (both gives and takes a fist).

What is fisting?

Fisting involves putting a hand, sometimes forearm, into another man’s arse, occasionally going up as far as the lower (sigmoid) colon. It doesn’t mean clenching your fist into a ball and pushing it into someone’s arse hole, which is usually not possible. Instead fingers are kept pointing straight and close together; a fist shape can be made once inside the arse.

Punch fucking is inserting a clenched fist in and out of the hole, like a cock pumps an arse. Due to the difficulties and potential dangers of doing this it’s best left to advanced fisters.

Double fisting means putting two hands inside the arse.

Piston fucking or jackhammering is when one man puts his dick and hand inside the other man’s arse, then wanks himself off inside the guy’s arse.

Chariot racing is when one fister fists two men (one hand in each arse).

The 2006 Gay Men’s Sex Survey found that in the previous 12 months 13% of men had fisted or been fisted. Fisting was almost twice as common as being fisted.

What’s the attraction?

Fisting fans call it the ultimate sexual experience, involving intense feelings of trust, intimacy and vulnerability. A guy being fisted is putting himself in the other man’s hands.

Fisting allows direct stimulation of the prostate (known as the ‘male’ G spot), the walnut shaped gland inside the arse where the base of the dick ends, below the belly button. Stroking it gives stronger orgasms. Manipulating the prostate triggers in the bottom the desire to piss, even with an empty bladder: this can be very pleasurable. A fister may be able to trigger an orgasm in the fistee, even though his cock is soft.

When the fister’s hand first enters the arse, the sensation is like being fucked by a large cock, but more powerful. Most cocks aren’t wide or long enough to do what a fist can: fill the rectum, prod the far side or go through the lower colon. So taking a hand is much more intense.

As the fister moves his hand deep inside, trying to get the best position to move through the sphincter of the lower (sigmoid) colon, the pulsating sensations coming from the fistee’s arse can become so strong that he can almost lose touch with the real world. When the fister finds the sphincter to the colon and moves his hand through it, the waves of pleasure can become even more intense. The pleasure centre is inside the body and this feeling is a real buzz for the fistee: he senses something moving within his body, not at the surface.

Deep fisting

Some say the rhythmic pumping of a hand up and down and around inside the colon is bliss, that no other sexual sensation comes close. If the fistee can take the fister’s hand clenched into a fist – making it wider so it rubs more against the muscular wall of the colon – the sensations get even stronger. This shouldn’t be painful.

The pleasure can be so strong and come in such strong waves that a fistee might almost feel hypnotised. This is deep fisting, and a fistee only comes to this with time and patience. A man regularly fisted by the same guy can be played like a musical instrument by his top, which is where the top gets his pleasure.

Hard-ons

When a man’s being fisted and experiencing the pleasure coming from his arse, he doesn’t think about his cock – it stays soft. Even if the fistee plays with it during fisting, it’s unlikely he’d get an erection unless he’s taken a drug like Viagra. The fistee’s mind is totally concentrated on his arse and the feelings coming from inside him.

Pushing limits

The fist is a potent symbol of masculine strength. Taking one inside can represent an even more powerful act of penetration, domination and surrender than taking a cock. Fisters can see themselves as a select group of hardcore men marked out by an act that shocks and disturbs the more conventional and less sexually adventurous.

Fisting involves pushing your limits, and for some the feeling of a man reaching deep inside them can’t be beaten. A regular fuck with a cock just might not be fulfilling enough, especially if you want to feel your ring being stretched and your insides probed like never before.

This entry was posted in American Psychiatry Association, autonomy, Ban Ki Moon, Bishop TuTu, Dr Ernest Massiah, Gay is Good, homophobe, Homophobia, IACHR, Lord Justice Munby, Lord Neuberger, Mr. Justice Beatson, The United nations, UNAIDS, WHO. Bookmark the permalink.

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