“Sex” in the secular society : the modern “intellectual and reasoned” wisdom .

The “bronze age”  produced  Bible recommends, for  the common good,  that  marriage

 and  sex  should  be  between one man  and one woman  using  the penis  and  the

vagina.

On the other  hand  in  their  great  wisdom  modern  day “intellectual  and  reasoned”

secularists  tout promiscuity  and acts  such as fisting ,  felching, rimming,

“farming”, scat, chariot racing, anal penetration, water  sports  etc.

 

Gay author Gabriel Rotello, “Let me simply say that I have no moral objection to promiscuity…I enjoyed the ’70’s, I didn’t think there was anything morally wrong with the lifestyle of the baths. I believe that for many people, promiscuity can be meaningful, liberating and fun.”  http://www.narth.com/docs/whyreveal.html.  He also says,   “Gay liberation was founded . . . on a ‘sexual brotherhood of promiscuity,’ and any abandonment of that promiscuity would amount to a ‘communal betrayal of gargantuan proportions. http://www.catholiceducation.org/articles/homosexuality/ho0075.html

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SCAT

Scat / Things to know

Also known in personal ads and internet profiles as:

  • brown
  • dirty (as in ‘into dirty’)
  • scatology.

Hanky code

Brown worn:

  • on the left (wants to dump on you)
  • on the right (wants to be dumped on).

What is scat?

Scat involves playing with shit, smearing it on your or his body, and sometimes eating it. It can also mean just getting off on seeing another guy dump his load.

‘Farming’ is taking shit from public toilets to play with.

What’s the attraction?

Taboos around cleanliness couldn’t be more powerfully broken by shit play: it’s everything we’ve been told not to do since childhood.

Men can be drawn to scat precisely because it provokes such a strong negative reaction in others. Lovers of scat might get a kick from stepping over what for most people is the line between what’s OK and what’s too extreme. Scat is perhaps the ultimate in sex without limits or inhibitions.

Privately we’re often fascinated by our own bowel movements and excrement. Scat lets men explore and share this interest and enjoy a special bond with other lovers of shit.

For scat fans shit can excite all the senses with its warmth, texture, smell, colour and possibly taste. Just like contact with the intimate body fluids of cum, spit or piss, sex involving shit can be a sign of intense closeness as someone is offering something that’s come from deep inside them. And in an intense power play scene, nothing is more symbolic of degradation, humiliation and control than exposure to faeces.

http://www.hardcell.org.uk/en/playroom/watersports/

WATERSPORTS

Watersports / Things to know

Also known in personal ads and internet profiles as:

  • ws
  • piss play
  • golden showers
  • yellow.

Hanky code

Yellow worn:

  • on the left (wants to piss on you)
  • on the right (wants to be pissed on)

What is watersports?

Watersports is playing with piss during sex, letting piss get on your or his clothes or body, possibly also drinking it or just getting off watching others piss.

Piss fucking involves someone being fucked, then the fucker pissing up the man’s arse.

What’s the attraction?

We all know how good a nice, long piss feels. On top of this sensation, contact with a stream of piss feels like being drenched in warm water. There can be a strong element of power games and humiliation involved too: pissing on something or someone shows disrespect, domination and violation which is a real turn-on for many men.

Wearing warm and piss-soaked or stained clothes and/or the smell of piss is symbolic of the dirt and degradation a guy may be looking for.

We’re conditioned to see pissing as something nasty and to be hidden, linked to guilt, shame and the anxiety of childhood potty training and bed wetting. Golden showers brings with it a feeling of freedom and release because we’re breaking one of our deepest hangups and letting ourselves do something we’ve been denied for so long.

While cum taken into the mouth or arse can carry HIV and other infections, the same is much less true for piss. Watersports is one way we can still take a man’s body fluid in the mouth without serious risk of harm and enjoy all that might symbolise in terms of bonding and intimacy.

Drinking piss is no big deal for most watersports fans. Besides, if you’ve been drinking plenty of liquid your urine becomes diluted, smelling and tasting like warm water.

Watersports goes well with a rubber fetish, given rubber’s waterproof quality and how good it looks when shiny and wet.

The Gay Men’s Sex Survey 2006 found that around 1 in 8 of men had done watersports in the previous 12 months.

FISTING

Fisting / Things to know / What can go wrong?

Also known in personal ads and internet profiles as:

  • fistfucking
  • ff
  • handballing
  • red.

Hanky code

Red, worn:

  • on the left (wants to fist)
  • on the right (wants to be fisted)
  • round the neck (both gives and takes a fist).

What is fisting?

Fisting involves putting a hand, sometimes forearm, into another man’s arse, occasionally going up as far as the lower (sigmoid) colon. It doesn’t mean clenching your fist into a ball and pushing it into someone’s arse hole, which is usually not possible. Instead fingers are kept pointing straight and close together; a fist shape can be made once inside the arse.

Punch fucking is inserting a clenched fist in and out of the hole, like a cock pumps an arse. Due to the difficulties and potential dangers of doing this it’s best left to advanced fisters.

Double fisting means putting two hands inside the arse.

Piston fucking or jackhammering is when one man puts his dick and hand inside the other man’s arse, then wanks himself off inside the guy’s arse.

Chariot racing is when one fister fists two men (one hand in each arse).

The 2006 Gay Men’s Sex Survey found that in the previous 12 months 13% of men had fisted or been fisted. Fisting was almost twice as common as being fisted.

What’s the attraction?

Fisting fans call it the ultimate sexual experience, involving intense feelings of trust, intimacy and vulnerability. A guy being fisted is putting himself in the other man’s hands.

Fisting allows direct stimulation of the prostate (known as the ‘male’ G spot), the walnut shaped gland inside the arse where the base of the dick ends, below the belly button. Stroking it gives stronger orgasms. Manipulating the prostate triggers in the bottom the desire to piss, even with an empty bladder: this can be very pleasurable. A fister may be able to trigger an orgasm in the fistee, even though his cock is soft.

When the fister’s hand first enters the arse, the sensation is like being fucked by a large cock, but more powerful. Most cocks aren’t wide or long enough to do what a fist can: fill the rectum, prod the far side or go through the lower colon. So taking a hand is much more intense.

As the fister moves his hand deep inside, trying to get the best position to move through the sphincter of the lower (sigmoid) colon, the pulsating sensations coming from the fistee’s arse can become so strong that he can almost lose touch with the real world. When the fister finds the sphincter to the colon and moves his hand through it, the waves of pleasure can become even more intense. The pleasure centre is inside the body and this feeling is a real buzz for the fistee: he senses something moving within his body, not at the surface.

Deep fisting

Some say the rhythmic pumping of a hand up and down and around inside the colon is bliss, that no other sexual sensation comes close. If the fistee can take the fister’s hand clenched into a fist – making it wider so it rubs more against the muscular wall of the colon – the sensations get even stronger. This shouldn’t be painful.

The pleasure can be so strong and come in such strong waves that a fistee might almost feel hypnotised. This is deep fisting, and a fistee only comes to this with time and patience. A man regularly fisted by the same guy can be played like a musical instrument by his top, which is where the top gets his pleasure.

Hard-ons

When a man’s being fisted and experiencing the pleasure coming from his arse, he doesn’t think about his cock – it stays soft. Even if the fistee plays with it during fisting, it’s unlikely he’d get an erection unless he’s taken a drug like Viagra. The fistee’s mind is totally concentrated on his arse and the feelings coming from inside him.

Pushing limits

The fist is a potent symbol of masculine strength. Taking one inside can represent an even more powerful act of penetration, domination and surrender than taking a cock. Fisters can see themselves as a select group of hardcore men marked out by an act that shocks and disturbs the more conventional and less sexually adventurous.

Fisting involves pushing your limits, and for some the feeling of a man reaching deep inside them can’t be beaten. A regular fuck with a cock just might not be fulfilling enough, especially if you want to feel your ring being stretched and your insides probed like never before.

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